The surprising joy of making new old friends
At this stage of life, I assumed my circle of lifelong friends was fixed. Then my high school classmates proved me wrong.

Robert Kuttner is cofounder and coeditor of The American Prospect and professor at Brandeis University’s Heller School. His latest book is “Notes for Next Time: Surviving Tyranny, Redeeming America.”
As we enter the last years of active life, among the accumulating losses is the loss of old friends. There are only so many of them. When they are gone, they are irreplaceable. You can travel to new places and take up new hobbies, but you can’t make new lifelong friends.
Except, it turns out that sometimes you can.
This may sound corny, but stay with me. I’ve been developing deepening friendships with people who I knew casually, or didn’t much like, or didn’t know at all, when we were in high school together more than 60 years ago.