In his influential 1979 book The Culture of Narcissism, sociologist Christopher Lasch argued that while human beings have always feared death, this fear “takes on new intensity in a society that has deprived itself of religion and shows little interest in posterity. Our society,” he continued, “notoriously finds little use for the elderly.” 

I found myself confronted with my own “cult of youth” while struggling to make the sacrifices necessary to take care of my grandparents as they aged. It was hard for me to turn down a friend’s birthday party invitation in order to stay with my grandpa, whose Parkinson’s disease made it difficult for him to move around the house, and with my grandma, who needed to be reminded to take her medication for dementia.